Thursday, 17 May 2007

Changing World

The world has changed exponentially. Is it good, bad, ugly, beautiful, fortunate or unfortunate? Well, let us leave that for the individual’s perspective.

There was a time when water was freely available. Now we have to shell money for the ‘safe’ packaged water. It is not long when you will ask a 12 year old about his address and his prompt reply will be, “It is crazy_fella@gmail.com.”

When answers were found from fathers & not by googling. When mothers used to be the junction of correction and understanding & not some counseling sessions by an NGO who will most probably wont even remember your name the next day, let alone knowing you completely. When grandparents’ stories used to be the reference of thought and creativity & not blogs. When fights with siblings used to be on a football and how long one will play & not on how long will one sit on the internet. When dinner time used to be the time of discussion and understanding each other & not punctuated by television and cell phone in the other hand. When saying good nights were a compulsion & not just an SMS. When people said take care with compassion and sense of belonging & not just a mere ‘tc’. When clothes were a necessity & not a statement. When fruits were eaten and not decorated. When one used to go to a florist and select their favourite flowers along with a hand-written note & not just e-cards and a musical bouquet. When ‘chitrahar’ used to be the time of melody and not a touch on the ipod. When men were noticed by their intellect and etiquette & not using the term IQ in every sentence. When friends used to exchange valuable information & not how expensive is each other’s gadgets/cars. When wind was enjoyed & not air-conditioners. When language used to be refined & not used for blaming/complaining. When people wanted to be artists so that they can make statues and not burn effigies.

I think I am still lagging behind time, so what if I like the light of the burning lantern, I can always download a pdf from the internet about lanterns under the topic antiques.

11 comments:

Ruth Esther said...

Very well written..like someone putting my thoughts into words!!! (did u by any chance read my mind??) LOL..way to go man...get out and get them...

Bint Mohammed Salim said...

every word uve written...they r soooo true....and uve written it all so beautifully.......good work...

but i m still laggin behind time.......and i just hope i never catch up.....

Ambereen said...

lovely obaid....very well written.... didnt know my brother has really grown up..... i am proud of u!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Obaid
harness your writing talent guy! you got it , use it to further yourself , wise head on young shoulders indeed...

Anonymous said...

AASIA: Very well said...great..it seemed that half of the things where about me and the things happening around and i dint even realise when they changed and so did i with them....but ..thank god...i am proudly behind in many..and i would love it to be that way.....u have a beautiful way of presenting ur thoughts..keep it up.

Anonymous said...

i loved it!!! coz everything u said... is sooo true... Now i feel like... Goin bck in time...
heheh...
Keep writing Obaid...
tk cr :)

samara said...

hey... i loved this one... watever is written is so true..
after reading this one esp.. i jus feel u r a lil sensitive.. i don knw if i m rite.. but yes i really loved this piece .. WONDERFUL...
gd luck

Unknown said...

very well written obaid! every line in it..is so true n could actually relate to it...must say ordinary man with extraordinary talent...good job!waiting to read more..

Khadija Sehyr said...

Truly brilliant! Just makes us realise how much everything has changed and that too soo FAST!

viji said...

Change is the only thing that never changes....but do we really like change???Not really,but we all learn to adapt.....like you have written...some beautiful things in life never do change, they always remain with us in the memories of our distant past.....which, can never really change.....

zindagi said...

Dear Obaid,

You have no idea, how I am feeling right now..when you read something that speaks your mind & heart out..you feel completely lost!!

I always use to sit at night under the star studded sky for hours.. used to think about the changing times. How fast everything has changed & how an old school I am according to almost every friend of mine. I never mind being an old school today, rather I cherish my personality even more.. beautifully written! Very thought provoking. I must request you to keep writing & sharing such awesome stuff regularly. Thanks!